Leo is The Performer, Sovereign, Ruler

Creative Expression and Play

• Fixed

• “I express”

“I feel special” “I have a self” “I am creative” “I want to play” “I want... adventure, fun.

In mature expression Leo is the King or Queen. The grand, star of the show.

What we do we give life to.

Children, force of life channelled through us.

Change the world.

Legacy.

To embrace your inner Leo is to want to make a difference. Its all about specialness. The Leo in your life will make you feel so special - as long as you make them feel special too!

Its all about feeling good about self, and having power.

Do you feel like life supports you?

Do you fear rejection?

This sustaining, fixed fire needs fuel.

It needs support to shine.

Leo is open and playful until hurt.

LIGHT: Impressive sign, loving, generous, hard to miss, when they shine, boy do they shine, love to entertain, funny, brings joy, loyal and courageous, fiercely driven by integrity, loves life and are fabulous, loving, loyal and funny,

SHADOW: Not so pretty, egocentric, competitive to aggression, prone to drama, attention seeking, melodramatic, ostentatious arrogant, shy away from the spotlight.

FIX: Build confidence, encourage the Leo’s in your life to express themselves in positive ways, let others shine. When a Leo encourages others to shine, they shine more and not less. Stay humble. Avoiding being selfish. Add an extra dose of funny just for yourself! Play.

STYLE: Self-expressive, creative

• Leo is fixed fire

• Its opposite is Aquarius: Making the axis of Individuation

• Its planetary ruler is The Sun

Leo asks: “who are you when you stop performing and start playing?”

Leo wants you to stop hiding, and show us who you truly are!

• Body Correspondence: heart, spine, upper back, and the cardiovascular system

My love letter to Leo…

Leo season begins in Gate 56 - and asks:

“Are you manifesting that which is stimulating or that which is enriching?”

“Are you chasing pleasure to avoid pain?”

The pathway of divine indulgence is littered with the pleasure / pain dilemma. Enrichment comes when you enjoy the journey without overstimulating yourself or becoming bored.

Self leadership, limitation and acceptance are required.

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The Gates of Leo - as we collectively move through these gates notice the invitations they have for you…

• Code 56: The Wandering Storyteller (Cancer / Leo Cusp) asks: are you living a truly enriching life, or a stimulating distraction?

• Code 31: The Visionary Voice asks: are you leading from a place of self glorification? or by setting an example of embodied congeniality?

• Code 33: The Wisdom Keeper asks: are you learning from your past and recognising the depth of wisdom in each mindful moment?

• Code 7: The Power Behind The Throne asks: are you leading from your values or from your fears?

• Code 4: The Forgiving Philosopher asks: are you leaving space for the unknown or holding on to attachments?

• Code 29: The Faithful Devotee (Leo / Virgo Cusp) asks: are you moving from devotion no matter what, or are you letting your conviction waiver when things don’t go your way?

This season is about self leadership; I have a lot of Leo / Self Leadership energy in my design & soul contract.

Gate 56 is my brand or life’s work; I’ll show you what is truly enriching you and whats a distraction. I’ll loyally love on you until you can’t help but love yourself too!

When you work with me you stride into YOUR TRUE SELF ERA because I’m designed to illuminate your brilliance and show you how to be the most empowered, embodied, fully expressed version of yourself!

My attraction field in Gate 33 asks “what matters to you and are you taking time to be mindful of your values?”

My purpose in Gate 28 asks “are you cognisant to which game you are actually playing?”

It’s my dharma to remind you of your true purpose and my mani gen energy and defined Will motivate you and make the deep work so FUN you don’t even realise its happening.

My Core Wound of half heartedness has become my Vocation of Devotion via the dilemma of postponement and the pathway of leaping into the void. I will ask you time and again, what are your actions showing that you are really, truly, deeply committed to?

My north node in Gate 4 asks “where are you holding on to outdated attachments and letting expectations limit you?”

When you stop letting logic lead, magic will find you and revelation will show you how magnetic and unfuckablewith you truly get to be!

Alongside these, My Mercury in Cancer [Gate 53] guides you into emotional and spiritual expansion and superabundance while gently revealing where you currently collapse and how to playfully curiously alchemise it with ease.

Ready to enter YOUR TRUE SELF ERA this leo season?

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(Also.. the nodes just moved into the Leo / Aquarius axis on top of Jupiter being in Leo and all the other once-in-a lifetime BIG planetary shiz… which means if you have any leo or Aquarius placements and have been thinking about working with me.. there will be no better time than now!

Reach out - whether it’s one of my 5 remaining deep dive intimate journey spots or a tasty taster, I’d love to hear from you and look at your options together…

You only get one life, make the most of it petal!

Choose your adventure wisely (get me on your team!)

Big self leadership love

Stay wild, stay true, be more you!

Ebonie xoxo

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Oh, you steady, beautiful, generous being, you know that the finest things in life are meant to be felt.

You don’t just live in the world. You tend it.

I love you for your groundedness, the way you build what others only dream of, how you show up, again and again - solid as soil, loyal as the seasons, a safe place in a world that never stops spinning.

You are the garden in full bloom, the table set with care, the hands that know how to make something from nothing and call it home.

And yes, sometimes you grip too tight.

Sometimes what started as security becomes a cage you built yourself.

Sometimes the comfort you’ve earned becomes the reason you stop growing, and the things you’ve gathered start to feel like they own you.

But that’s just what it looks like when a soul built for abundance forgets that the richest things can’t be held in your hands.

Get outside. Put your hands in the earth. Let nature remind you what you already know…

You are the resource.

Your worth was never in what you own, but in everything you are.

The world doesn’t just need you to build things - it needs you to show us how to be here.

Fully. Present.

Gloriously alive in a body that knows how to feel everything.

You, Taurus. Gardener. Builder. Artisan. The one who makes the ordinary sacred and reminds us all to slow down and savour.

This is you. Rooted, real, and radiant - thank god you exist.

Whether you are buying this piece for yourself or a Taurus you love, let this be a love letter of ownership and celebration!

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Taurus is the second sign in the Zodiac, and is fixed earth

Opposite Scorpio, together they create the axis of matter.

Taurus Says…

Slow down, be patient, set intentions and let your self worth rise to match them.

Taurus Says…

Slow down, be patient, commit

The essence of Taurus is to love, to enrich, to stabilise, preserve, curate, ground, value, maintain, simplify & enjoy.

Embodied:

resourceful, tenacious, graceful

Shadow:

Stubborn, materialistic, greedy

Body Correspondence:

Throat, neck, thyroid gland, vocal cords, and ears. It also governs the jaw, shoulders, and lymphatic system

Archetype:

The bull (and the hedonist)

Keywords:

Stability and Self-worth. sensual, reliable, practical, grounded

Rituals:

Welcome Taurus Season by changing your sheets, doing a ‘big’ shop or investing in something that will last you for life - quality craftsmanship of some sort.

slow + steady wins the race

The Gates of Taurus

During Taurus season the sun passes through these Gates. This means that if you have these defined in your blueprint, you’ll get an ‘upgrade’ and refine how you are a beacon of this energy and if you have it undefined, it will be defined for you during the transit - possibly making a channel from a hanging gate, or acting as a programming partner for another frequency that you hold.

• Gate 3: The Logical Child (Aries / Taurus Cusp)

• Gate 27: The Considerate Cup

• Gate 24: The Voice of The Void

• Gate 2: The Receptive Self

• Gate 23: The Essence Revealer

• Gate 8: The Continuous Contribution (Taurus / Gemini Cusp)

Let me share with you a little about the frequency of each gate / code. Note that the dates vary slightly year to year, but that each Astrological sign has roughly 6 Gates, including the cusps.

Gate / Code 3: The Logical Child (Aries / Taurus Cusp)

Code 3 is all about change and our relationship to it. The only logical way to ‘cope’ with change is like a child would. At the beginning it’s difficult and we resist. Through the eyes of a child though, bringing order to chaos playfully, allows for innovation, synthesis and adventure. Code 3 knows that the constantly changing circumstances of life are not only inevitable but are the beginning of something magical.

• 17th - 22nd April

• Aries / Taurus

Human Design: Ordering / Solutions

Gene Keys: Chaos - Innovation - Innocence

In Action: Playfully create order out of chaos, let yourself be childlike in your orientation and magic will be made. Fall into trying to control, and the mutation will meet messy resistance, and you’ll probably encounter your inner saboteur.

Core theme: Bringing order to the constantly changing circumstances

Internal Motivation: Embrace chaos effortlessly

Light End: Unique. Transformative. Mutative. Playfully and graciously embraces chaos and takes leaps of faith. Faces obstacles with a lighthearted touch. Sees obstacles as a fun adventure.

Shadow End: Impatient and impulsive. Is controlling, rushes and is disordered. Experiences chaos with a sense of powerlessness. Wants things to stay the same, and is a Victim of their chaotic mind.

Mastery - Innocence / Childlike Joy: Mastery lets you view life with the carefree joy of a child. In this state, there is no longer a need to control the universe. Instead, you experience each new encounter as an innocent and playful adventure.

Gift - Innovation / Renewal: The gift opens pathways for groundbreaking ideas and solutions. It promotes creative rethinking and the implementation of unconventional approaches that lay the foundation for progress. You contribute to the unfolding of novelties that break existing patterns and bring newness into the world.

Shadow - Chaos / Disorder: The shadow manifests in its suppressed form as an exaggerated need for order and control, in an attempt to contain disorder. The impulsive form can lead to a disrupted existence, where you try to escape the disorder. Both aspects are an invitation to recognise the apparent chaos as a natural part of the order of life and to use it as an opportunity for personal growth and development.

To Raise The Frequency: Collect evidence of your ability to overcome obstacles and to face chaos with grace. Practise patience and devotion.

Programming Partner: Code 50: ‘The Equilibrium Evaluator’ Lean into trust.

Channel Pal: Code 60 ‘The Magical Mutation Master’ and Code 3 make ‘The Channel of Mutation’ - which initiates and fluctuates power, force & energy for change.

Embodiment:

• Centre: Sacral (heading toward the Root)

• Physiology: Navel

Affirmations:

• I choose to overcome confusion with playful patience and devotion

• My innocence is innovative

Gate / Code 27: The Considerate Cup

Code 27 is all concerned with the responsibility of care, nourishment and protection (physically and spiritually). Striking a balance between the needs of others, the community, and the Self.

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This piece was made for the days the news is too loud. For the mornings that feel heavy before they’ve even started. For the moment you forget, just for a second, that any of this is worth it.

It is.

Hope doesn’t look like certainty. It looks like wildflowers in concrete.

Like someone spray painting truth on a wall at 2am.

Like choosing, again, to believe in what’s possible.

Bold as graffiti. Soft as a ray of winter sunlight through the window.

Both.

Put this in your kitchen. Your office. Anywhere you begin things.

Let it catch your eye on the hard days. Let it be the thing that tips you back toward yourself.

Because hope isn’t naive. It’s the bravest thing there is.

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Each piece comes in three sizes starting at just £25.

Anchor in your destiny. Live your life like it’s Art.

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To Aries, With Love

Oh, you magnificent, blazing thing

You don’t wait for permission. You are the permission.

I love you for your fire, the way you strike a match just by entering the room, how you make the rest of us remember that life was always meant to be lived; loudly, boldly, without footnotes or apology.

You are the first breath of spring, the spark before the flame, the yes before the question is finished.

And yes, sometimes you burn too bright, sometimes you’re halfway to the horizon before you notice the ones who wanted to come with you.

Sometimes the hunt matters more than the having, and the beginning is so intoxicating that the middle feels like a cage.

But that’s just what it looks like when a soul is made of pure ignition.

Let the fire focus.

Let the warrior become the builder.

Stay long enough to see what you started turn into something that carries your name.

Because the world doesn’t just need you to begin things; it needs you to show them it’s possible.

You, Aries. Pioneer. Warrior. Flame.

The one who went first so the rest of us knew we could follow.

This is you. Wam bam thank you mam (and thank god you exist)

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐢𝐞𝐜𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧 𝐀𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐞 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧!

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The essence of Aries

is to forge independence, to pioneer, to lead, to be yourself with determination & courage…

Everyone has Aries somewhere in their chart, it’s my IC - which house does Aries occupy in your chart, this is the area that you’ll get upgrades in every year at this time…

The Gates of Aries

Code 25: The Spirit of Love (Pisces / Aries Cusp)

Code 17: The Omniscient Opinion

Code 21: The Honourable Huntress

Code 51: The Shock of Love

Code 42: The Experienced Asset

Code 3: The Logical Child (Aries / Taurus Cusp)

Find out more about The Kismet Codes HERE.

The Gifts of Aries

Acceptance • Far-Sightedness • Authority • Initiative • Detachment • Innovation

Cardinal Fire:

ARIES - initiates action // Takes initiative that demonstates its personal courage and ability to act on its own inspiration

Opposite:

Libra: Making the axis of Identity

Planetary Ruler:

Mars

Body Correspondence:

Head, face, teeth, tongue, hair, arteries, and blood.

Archetype:

Ram, Pioneer, Initiator, Trailblazer, Warrior

Keywords:

Uniqueness and Innovation. Independence, innovation and humanitarianism. Futuristic, objective, social, inventive, and idealistic.

Embodied:

Dynamic, innovative, brave, courageous

Shadows:

Aggressive, self-centred and competitive, restless

Rituals:

Burn your frustrations [Action + Awareness]

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In this episode, I sit down with Kehla G, a Human Design and Gene Keys business mentor who went from competitive rugby athlete to online coach, navigating the Saturn return shift from body to mind with radical self-awareness.

In this episode we explore:

• Kehla’s journey from elite athlete to Human Design mentor and the Saturn return pivot from a body-focused career as a PE teacher to where she is now

• How spirituality and embodiment practices are closer than we think; and why grounding into your body is essential for avoiding spiritual bypassing and being “away with the fairies”

• The power of open throat energy: saying what everyone’s thinking, and how AI can help you externalise your process and find your own voice

• Why being “full of yourself” means subtracting the world’s conditioning instead of adding more strategies

• The nuances of sacral response: moving beyond “fuck yes or fuck no” to micro-yeses that build trust

• Expression beyond words: pre-cognition, reading the room, and how childhood survival skills shape our gifts

• Creating spaciousness by deleting social media, sitting with loneliness, and discovering what you’re actually full of when you’re being yourself

This conversation is for you if:

• You’re an entrepreneur who feels like you’re on the edge or ahead of your time

• You have an “interesting relationship” with your body and are seeking grounding practices

• You’re bored of being full of everyone else’s strategies and want to orient yourself in your own design

• You struggle with open centres (especially throat, head, or G centre) and need to understand how to work with the conditioning

• You’re navigating the tension between doing less and feeling isolated, or between specificity and allowing surprise

• You want to understand how Human Design and Gene Keys can create sustainable business infrastructure, not just better messaging.

Meet Kehla G:

Kehla G is a human design, gene keys, and AI business mentor based in Victoria, BC, Canada. A 6/2 sacral generator, Kehla supports entrepreneurs in building sustainable businesses by treating them like ecosystems—helping clients orient themselves through their unique design rather than chasing the next strategy.

A former elite rugby athlete (2003-2018) and personal trainer turned online coach, Kehla experienced a Saturn return pivot from body to mind that shaped her approach to integrating embodiment with business. She’s the host of Built for the Edge, a top 2% podcast with over 500 episodes exploring entrepreneurship, spirituality, and human design.

Known for her engineering mind, radical transparency, and being “full of piss and vinegar,” Kehla helps people become full of themselves instead of full of the world.

Connect with Kehla:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kehlaG

• Substack:

• Podcast: Built for the Edge

• Free Gift: Your Business Re-Oriented (5-episode series on decision making, pressure & strategy through the human design and gene keys lens)

Timestamps:

1:09 - Introduction and Kehla’s background
4:05 - Why embodiment matters for spiritual entrepreneurs
5:37 - From rugby athlete to personal trainer to mindset coach
6:22 - The Saturn return shift: body to mind
9:22 - Revealing what’s underneath: becoming full of yourself vs. full of the world
10:26 - “I am full of piss and vinegar”
11:28 - The wound of not belonging anywhere (open G Centre)
12:35 - How podcasting changed everything for the open throat
14:26 - Using AI to externalise thinking and mirror your own voice
20:48 - Creating spaciousness: deleting Instagram and sitting with withdrawal
22:42 - Feeling isolated when you stop distracting yourself
25:26 - Dopamine hits are screwing your sacral response
26:16 - Beyond “fuck yes or fuck no”—cultivating trust through micro-responses
28:33 - Specificity vs. surprise: contradictions that make you alluring
31:11 - Expression moves energy—why being polarising is helpful
32:01 - Pre-cognition: seeing the shape before the language
33:28 - Being hearing impaired and learning to read the room to survive
36:43 - Parenting Manifestors: teaching kids to express anger and find peace
40:16 - Kehla’s gift: Your Business Re-Oriented
41:17 - Final wisdom: be kind to yourself, hindsight is 2020

Ebonie and Kehla’s Charts for reference:

EBONIE :What does being ‘full of yourself’ mean to you? What are you FULL of?

KEHLA: To me, being full of yourself means you’re so full of conviction, confidence, and your own values that there’s no space left to replicate or absorb what others think, say, or do. It’s about being anchored in who you are — unshakable in your truth.

When I’m full of myself, I’m probably a mix of piss and vinegar in the best, most tongue-in-cheek way. But at my core, I’m full of conviction, resilience, and devotion — that’s the fuel that drives everything I do.

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you’ve made for yourself in your adult life?

KEHLA: One of the biggest shifts I’ve made in the last couple of years has been recognising how much of my communication used to come from childhood wounding. No surprise there — but it really shaped how I articulated myself, often through my ego. I’m fiery by nature and have a sharp tongue, and I can see now how that was a protective mechanism that sometimes cut off intimacy and connection.

Over the last two years, I’ve become much more intentional with my communication and compassion — especially when things feel triggering. I’ve also had to release friendships that no longer matched the level of growth and honesty I live by. My “piss and vinegar” vibe can be a lot for some people — it’s magnetic, but it can also be confronting. I realised that some people loved being around that energy but weren’t actually ready to meet it within themselves.

Ending those friendships created space for relationships where my fire doesn’t need to be dimmed — where I can be fully myself and feel that same energy reflected back.

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

KEHLA: piss and vinegar [lol]

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The more you trust yourself, the more fun is possible not just now, but forever

The time of letting yourself be led is gone.

If you know your values and are acting on them, in alignment with them, you’ll begin to see the shore and your seeds will take root

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SAVE THIS POST because it tells you what to focus on week by week..

Focus on the glimmers.

Look for the universe winks and the subtle guidance pointing to where the magic lies.

Be the snowdrop, a dream of light, hope, and surrender

Tend to the flame inside

The first 3 weeks of March Mercury is rx in Pisces

Look to the part of your chart where Pisces is, this is the area of life that you get to reimagine while Mercury is retrograde.

Meditate, pray, sense, process your emotion, work with your dreams, make art.

In Wholesign this is the 4th House for me, and in Placidus its the 3rd House. Either way, when I look at the overall picture of my chart, Pisces is the ease point from the tension of my T Square and I feel like I am reviewing and reimagining how I think about and envision the foundations of my life.

This Eclipse and these transits are asking me to dream a new dream about how my day to life looks, less screen time, less work and being available for others as an act of service, and more art, nature, daydreaming and living my life first.

For most of my life ‘work’ has been the foundation that I have begun each day with, the focus of my day, week, month was what am I working on? And now I am in the process of really reimagining a life where my devotion is directed in a subtly different direction. My focus on living my life like its art, and offering my gifts in potent doses of quality over quantity.

March 6-10th Venus Conjoins Saturn + Neptune in Aries

• Saturn: Planet of time, structure, integrity, authority, mastery, pressure, limits, responsibility, maturity.

• Venus: Planet of values, attraction, abundance, love, pleasure and resources

• Aries: Wants to innovate, individuate. Self awareness, independence

Take responsibility for your relationships, and resources by making moves that align with the courageous new self-led identity that is forming. Act with self respect.

The first week of March asks us to let go of control and to practice acceptance. To Recognise Divine order..

Come to our community call tomorrow to be held and guided through this eclipse and the rest of this months energy.

Week two is asking you to focus on your relationships and resources (what do you truly value, what are you really committed to?)

Week three and its step backwards to step forwards… it might feel glitchy, but focus on your inner Authority in order to make moves that honour your embodied authority.

Not sure what your Authority is?

Get your free chart, and then your Fundamentals reading reports from me HERE.

If you are not yet embodying your unique design and soul contract, now is the time to understand how you were designed to operate and to honour your incarnation intentions by aligning with your dharma, karma, purpose and mastery.

Week four (and the rest of this year, and maybe lifetime) asks us to love and lead ourselves well.

No more co-dependency, no more collapsing into leaders with entitlement, now we lead ourselves - together

Listen to your heart and ACT on what it tells you!

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I am Ebonie, Ebonie Allard; an energy specialist, master coach and soul contract guide who offers a unique approach to self-discovery that’s both playful and profound.

I help experienced culture makers live their lives fully; empowered, embodied and fully expressed.

Blending Human Design, Gene Keys, Astrology and Numerology with somatic practices, and energetic alchemy, I help you to decode the details of your soul contracts, integrate the shadows in your blind spots, and reignite your sacred spark so that you’re fulfilled, satisfied and living to your full potential.

My immersive art, programs, reading reports and sessions help you to feel unapologetically fabulous about being full of yourself and remind you how to have fun; before it’s too late!

Professionally, I am the creator of ‘The Value Filter’, ‘Embody Your Design®’ and ‘The Kismet Codes’

Personally, I’m a pussy-cat mermaid. Either splashing about in the sea or curled up in a sunny spot.

Whether you’re seeking clarity, confidence, or a little magic, I’ll help you see yourself, and your life in a whole new light.

This month I’m:

- Hosting the community call circle on the full moon in Virgo

- Hosting a class inside @ruthpoundwhite ‘s soulful sales summit and contributing to a panel discussion

- Seeing @elifkoseofficial and some other incredible women on international women’s day!

- Speaking at and bringing gifts for @danidevren and @moonandsoul_coach ‘s Retreat Day

• I’ve got a VIP day available on the Equinox / Ostara for ONE person (is it yours? Message me)

And I’m hosting a NEW workshop: Magnetic & Unfuckablewith [A Human Design workshop] Come and Join us! (there is a choice of 2 dates to come live)

PLUS - anyone who signs up for The Value Filter between now and Friday 6th March gets a 1:1 with me for free worth £444!! Yep, even if you get a payment plan.

I’d love to see you at any and all of these things!

Message me if you need a link or wanna talk something through.

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I definitely used to ‘mother’ everyone - once I learned my Human Design, energy flow and soul contract, and began to decondition, I realised that instead of attracting people who wanted or needed me to mother them, I started to attract different people. Most people who are magnetised to my community carry the energy of this gate, often filling my split, which is lovely!

I also have gate 40 in my Prosperity Sphere, and part of my soul contract has definitely been learning to let people be equal partners (rather than me doing or thinking about everything)

Learning to take care of my emotional needs, and the value of things that money can’t buy is an ongoing journey, and I realise now that a lot of what we do inside Embody Your Design® is this…

Boundaries // Honouring relationships

Code 37: The Mama

…is all about bonds, belonging and boundaries.

Loyalty, respect and recognition must be given and received generously.

Code 37 treats everyone as a valuable part of the family, community, or friend circle.

Strong bonds underpin the collective and code 37 know that supportive relationships are made through nurturing strong communication and healthy boundaries.

Code 37 is ‘the glue’ holding it all together (often with cuddles.)

Astrology: Pisces

Human Design: Friendship / Boundaries

Gene Keys: Weakness – Equality – Tenderness

In Action: Healthy communication and maintaining strong boundaries.

Core theme: Fear of tradition.

Internal Motivation: Self-love and the love for the close ones + Recognising the value of the family unit + Maintaining harmony in the family and community + Feeling connected with others through touch and cuddling.

NB: Forms part of a ‘build up’ emotional wave

Wanna know more about the gates and your unique design?

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Light End:

Maintains harmony in the family and community. Connects with others through affection,  touch and cuddling. Sensitivity. Loyalty. Warmth. Harmony. Inner peace. Friendship. Cares with food and emotional resources. 

Shadow End:

People pleaser. Manipulative. Vindictive. Hides behind its emotion. Looks for peace outside of itself. Nervousness over promises. Victim of its gender identity. 

To Raise The Frequency:

Take care of your emotional needs, learn about the wisdom of emotions, boundaries, and practise healthy communication.  (join us inside Embody Your Design®)

Questions to ask yourself or journal on:

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Romantic, innocent, playful and emotional, the frequency of this code is changeable and uncontrollable. Code 55 knows that Earth is a veritable playground for the Divine to play in infinite expression and that abundance is the very nature of life itself, but it often sees itself as victimised and acts as such.

Its shadow is Victimisation... and it can often take a lot of discipline and focus for us to remember that we are always ‘free’ on the inside.

Astrology: Pisces

Human Design: Spirit / Abundance

The Gene Keys: Victimisation – Freedom – Freedom (Liberation)

The Hexagram: Feng (Abundance)

When operating from a state of scarcity, we are afraid of losing and cling too tightly to what we believe we need. In this condition, life appears to be fighting us. It always reflects the condition of our inner world. - Kari Hohne

In Action: Surrender to creativity and abundance

Core theme: Fear of emptiness

Internal Motivation: I do it all for love and freedom

Embodiment:

• Centre: Emotional Solar Plexus (Heading to Root)

• Physiology: Solar Plexus

Affirmations:

• I am connected to the spirit of abundance

• My moods are creative fuel and that is my abundance

Note, this Gate forms part of a ‘spontaneous’ emotional wave and makes the channel of moodiness, or emoting - and an essential part of not feeling victimised is to feel and express your feelings, so that they may move and you may be free.

This code is a particularly important one to contemplate at this time because it is a defining part of The Cross of The Rising Phoenix, which we move into in 2027

Read more on The Cross of Sleeping Phoenix

The reason there is so much talk about 2027 and the wild, unprecedented Astrology of this time is because collectively we are transitioning from living in the energy of the Cross of Planning (a cycle that has shaped global structures, economies, and as a collective cross it has given a collective plan for collective security for over 400 years) to living in the energy of the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix. Which is an individual Cross.

This is not just another shift; it’s an energetic evolution unlike anything we will witness again in our lifetimes. The Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix is formed of Individual circuitry, whereas The Cross of Planning is formed of collective Circuitry.

Circuitry in Human Design refers to the flow of energy between the centres in the BodyGraph through channels.

The flow of energies are interconnected to each other and play a specific role in how they receive, transform and express energy. Each Gate and Channel is part of a circuit group and each circuit has particular themes. The three main circuits are Individual, Tribal or Collective.

• Collective Circuit Theme: Sharing

• Individual Circuit Theme: Self-empowerment

• Tribal Circuit Theme: Support

This means that we are moving from living in a world built in and of the energy of sharing, into one built in and of self empowerment. Everything in our world is currently set up for us to share resources - roads, schools, utilities and already, you can see that there is a pull away from these things. What served for most of the 400 years, it now becoming obsolete but we won’t arrive into the peak of the new frequency immediately, it’ll build. And, as usual there is a field of potential from the shadow of victimisation, to freedom, and liberation.

The Cross of The Sleeping Phoenix consists of four main gates (55, 59, 34, 20), which define its energy:

• Gate 55: The Gate of Spirit (Emotional/Abundance).

• Gate 59: The Gate of Sexuality/Intimacy (Breaking down barriers).

• Gate 34: The Gate of Power/Life Force.

• Gate 20: The Gate of the Now/Presence.

I will be sharing more on this and everything that you need to know about the collective energies and your personal design and soul contract on my paid Substack but mostly inside Kismetflix, which is the main teaching part of The Trueself Trifecta

The Trueself Trifecta incudes Kismetflix, The Value Filter and Embody Your Design and these are my three offers - created from my Culture sphere in Gate 59, and my ‘LAX of Distraction’ which means I show you what to trust and what to tune out. What to focus on that matters in the long term, and what does not. If you are ready to trust yourself, and be yourself to your full potential, come join us…

For now, and over the next 5-6 days, this is what to focus on:

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In this article, I delve into anger, the body and a different way of thinking about anger - Understanding inflammation in the body is something I’m truly passionate about.

The thing is I didn’t (don’t) see myself as an angry person. My Mars is in Libra. I am driven by harmony, balance, fairness.

But after years of inflammation showing up in my body in all sorts of different ways, I eventually had to admit the truth: maybe I am conflict-avoidant.

Maybe I am carrying resentment like a low hum in my cells.

Whether you’re curious about how anger might look if you’re not an angry person, or you’re looking to gain fresh insights on the physical symptoms of unexpressed anger my article has something for you.

I continue to be incredibly grateful to collaborate with and to be featured in a space where they inspire, guide and support women to trust their inner voice and step into their power.

I’d love to hear your thoughts…

Check it out here https://sovereign-magazine.com/february-2026-aquarius-new-moon/ and let me know what resonates most with you.

#iamsovereign #ThoughtLeadership #NewArticle #PassionProject #LinkInBio #globalwomen #sovereignwomen #womensupportingwomen

Ebonie xoxo

It's about surrendering and watching what unfolds. Your soul's GPS is recalibrating.

Are you listening?

THIS ECLIPSE MARKS A NEW ECLIPSE CYCLE AND YOU'RE LOOKING FOR THEMES AND FEELINGS THAT WERE PRESENT BETWEEN 2007-2009 + 2016-2019

Re-imagine it all, who you be, how you show up, how you relate, what you give attention and intention to. Remember the theme of this whole month...

Honestly, I wanted to write more, offer you more… but I’m too in it.

Too in my own process and no longer willing or able to extend into giving of myself for the collective when I’m not in overflow

Finally listening.

• Owning that my insight is potent and valuable

• No longer diluting myself

• Ready to stand fully behind what is ‘enough’

Ready to keep some of my magic back for myself, and those who recognise the potency of my presence

Enjoying being enriched by my community and reaping the harvest of years of tending and devoted weeding

This eclipse feels intoxicating and revelatory to me, and I’m slowed down enough to pay attention and actually enjoy it

I’m in the dark depths of my own mutation and it’s dark, and mysterious and magical

If you’re ready for your own mutative magic.. message me - I have capacity to work with one culture maker who’s ready to alchemise everything

And, I’d love to know what themes or patterns are emerging for you?

Dear reader - What are you feeling or noticing?

• Where are you switching it all off, to reboot?

• What kind of collaboration are you open to?

Big love

Stay wild, stay true, be more YOU!

You’re made of stardust, don’t ever forget that you’re literally made of magic - you can mutate into almost anything! Your potential is limitless

Ebonie xoxo

What does it actually mean to trust yourself?

Not conceptually, but as a lived, embodied practice?

In this episode, we dive into the messy, beautiful process of reclaiming your authority: the moment you realise you’ve been outsourcing your decisions, the terror of saying no when everything in your conditioning screams yes, and what happens when you finally stop performing and start listening to your body. We explore the Leo-Aquarius axis, the myth of the isolated family unit, why we’re all drowning trying to save each other, and how your core wound might just be your greatest gift.

In this episode we explore:

• The Leo-Aquarius axis and what it means for the collective as we move into the Aquarian age

• Why “belonging” doesn’t mean conforming; it means being yourself within community

• The myth of the nuclear family and why we’re all “drowning trying to save each other”

• How motherhood became Jessie’s gateway to trusting her intuition unconditionally

• Gate 29 and the journey from saying yes to everything to honouring when cycles are complete

• The difference between the gift of commitment and the shadow of half-heartedness (and knowing when it’s time to let go)

• Why your core wound is your greatest gift

This conversation is for you if:

• You’re navigating your Saturn return or a major life transition

• You struggle with saying no (or saying yes to the wrong things)

• You’re questioning the traditional paths you were told to follow

• You want to understand the Leo-Aquarius energy shaping our collective future

• You’re a parent trying to find your village in a world of isolated family units

• You’re learning to trust your body and intuition over external authority

• You are a Sag rising, or have strong Sag, Leo, or Aquarius placements, are a 6/2 or 5/2 Profile.

• You have ever struggled with commitment / or bi passing emotions

Meet Jessie Eccles:

Jessie Eccles is an astrologer, Human Design reader, and teacher who helps people understand their personal timing, patterns, and decision-making so they can live and work in a way that actually fits their life.

After leaving a corporate career during early motherhood, she built an business centered around self-trust, cyclical living, and redefining success outside of productivity culture. Her work blends practical guidance with psychological and symbolic insight, helping clients move from external validation toward internal authority.

She teaches astrology and Human Design, offers personal readings, and mentors women, especially mothers, in building lives and businesses aligned with their values, energy, and real capacity.

Connect with Jessie:

Website: https://jessie-eccles.mykajabi.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessieeccles

Timestamps

• 3:50 – The Leo-Aquarius axis in family dynamics

• 7:20 – What “belonging” really means in the Aquarian age

• 19:30 – Ebonie’s midlife unraveling and radical honesty about what she wants

• 24:30 – Facing your greatest fears and living through them

• 28:00 – Jessie on the moment she couldn’t override her intuition

• 32:30 – The 6/2 Profile journey: staying in the body when things get tough

• 38:00 – Embodying Gate 29: commitment, half-heartedness, and knowing when cycles end

• 45:00 – Leaving corporate life and the moment no amount of money could keep her

• 49:00 – Becoming full of yourself means saying no more than you ever imagined

A vector of the kanizsa triangle tattoo that Jessie shares in the podcast.

EBONIE :What does being ‘full of yourself’ mean to you? What are you FULL of?

JESSIE: I’d say I’m full of awareness.
Pattern recognition.
And trust, especially self-trust.
I don’t need everyone to agree with me anymore, and I don’t need to convince people. I trust my perception, my pace, and my decisions even when they don’t look conventional. That actually makes me more compassionate and less reactive because I’m not trying to perform a life anymore.

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you’ve made for yourself in your adult life?

JESSIE: The biggest shift was moving from achievement-based identity to self-trust-based identity. I used to feel safe when I was doing things “right.” Motherhood broke that.

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

JESSIE: At my essence I am full of curiosity, devotion, and awareness. I’m deeply interested in understanding patterns in people, in cycles, in timing, in why things unfold the way they do. I don’t experience life as random. I experience it as meaningful. And I think the core of my work is helping people trust themselves enough to participate in their own life again instead of just reacting to it.

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Code 30 is all about revelling in the intensity of feeling, desire and emotion without expectation.

Hungering for experience and variety.

Surrendered and sexy.

Code 30 knows that the full spectrum of emotion (deep longing, fire, curiosity, and desire for something new) are a gift of the human experience.

Code 30 inspires others to discover and engage in all that life has to offer and surrender to precisely what is and accept life’s limitations.

Aquarius energy is defined by a need for intellectual connection, independence, and unconventional love. As a fixed air sign, it values mental stimulation, loyalty, and collaboration, but often keeps emotion at a distance, preferring acts of service over traditional romantic gestures.

Its not the most romantic of archetypes and its always bugged me that Valentines is in Aquarius season when Leo is way more about big romantic gestures and putting on a show.

Valentine’s Day originates from the ancient Roman fertility festival of Lupercalia in mid-February (15th) which was replaced by the Christian feast day of St. Valentine on February 14th in the 5th century. It evolved from a martyr commemoration into a romantic celebration during the Middle Ages, associated with courtly love.

Aquarius and a Martyr commemoration I can get behind.

I am not picking on any individual as I say this, we are all WAY more than our Sun Sign and we all have each energy and archetype play out in our make up in some way.

Some players are centre stage and some bare less of an influence… and we all move through all of the archetypes and energies as the wheel of the year turns and their neutrinos impact us on an energetic level.

When I started daily contemplation of and a mindful embodiment of the Kismet Codes, I noticed something that made Valentines make sense…

The Cusp of Sensitivity: February 15 - 21

I am a cusp baby, born at 0º of Leo, and I am an Astrologer who recognises a 5º orb as a cusp. I love that each cusp has its own flavour and blends the element and mode of the merging archetypes.

The Aquarius-Pisces cusp, between February 15 to 21, is an energy full of compassion and creativity.

If you are born on the Cusp of Sensitivity you likely can feel the weight of the world -- which is both a blessing and a curse!

The Aquarius-Pisces cusp is where we feel the influence of both the planets of Uranus and Neptune. As we move through this turn of the wheel, we likely all feel its influence.

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These pieces are different from anything else I make, for my usual style of spiritual, sacred, contemporary prints go to my store, if you want to support me and give me the price of a coffee each month, to help me ‘play’ I’d really appreciate it and you’ll get v limited edition, exclusive pieces. These pieces are only available to my stampfans.

Let me know in the comments which you want 1, 2, or 3?

Last month the winner was choice two, so that is what my stampfans got!

Would you have chosen that one?

These were the picks for January (received Feb)

Let me know - for February’s pick (received early March) which is your choice?

I love doing these and I currently have 11 subscribers - I would love to get to 100 by my birthday in July… can you help? Restack or share with people who you know would love to get some happy making mail each month!

BIG love,

stay wild, stay true, be more you!

Ebonie xoxo

In this episode we explore:

• How to use Human Design as a persuasion map (not just an awareness tool)

• The difference between “bro marketer” pressure tactics and feminine equivalent (love-bombing) and why both miss the mark

• Why the fact that 71% of people have open head centres is so important and a simple shift in your messaging that speaks directly to this.

• The not so often talked about shadow side of AI-generated content. When to use it (and when to absolutely not)

• How to identify the patterns, beliefs, and immaturities keeping your audience stuck

• What part of your chart helps you understand your audience’s desires and gaps

• Why now is the time to call out charlatans and take off the rose-colored glasses

This conversation is for you if:

• You’re tired of following marketing formulas that feel misaligned

• You want to understand how to meet your audience where they actually are

• You’re curious about using astrology and Human Design for business strategy

• You’ve been waiting for someone to invite you to the “big girl table”

• You want to create content that converts without compromising your integrity

Meet Tanya Marie

Hi, I am Tanya Marie. I am a Human Design Business Strategist and Conversion Copywriter, and I help you turn your words into wealth with Content by Design. I love helping online business owners show up and influence online based on their birth codes, neuro psychology, and by using the astrological transits, which I call Sky Strategy, to make powerful moves in their business and attract the right soul clients to open their wallets for them.

Connect with Tanya:

The masterclass we mention that you don’t want to miss: https://tanya-marie.mykajabi.com/seducebydesign

If you miss the class, and she hasn’t put a replay up yet…

Join her free Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehouseofhumandesign

where she goes live with messaging angles based on the transits and you can get a free report on how to market sell and scale by design.

Her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehouseofhumandesign

Substack:

Timestamps

• 2:40 – Manifestor energy: responding juice and the electric on/off switch

• 4:29 – Saturn and Uranus: the headmaster meets the eccentric uncle

• 7:43 – Ebonie’s Neptune-Saturn-Venus T-Square and claiming your range

• 10:35 – Pluto in Scorpio in the 11th: creating cult-like fan bases (ethically)

• 12:06 – Why dark arts people can’t even find Tanya’s transmission

• 13:00 – Feeling is believing: sensing intent and frequency behind words

• 15:08 – Spotting misalignment in content: when polarising doesn’t match your energy

• 17:58 – The Emperor’s New Clothes story explained

• 18:58 – AI as the modern Emperor’s New Clothes

• 20:01 – When AI works and when it absolutely doesn’t

• 22:00 – The washing machine analogy: some things are too precious for AI

• 23:58 – Persuasion levers: meeting people by their gaps, not your authority

• 26:00 – 71% have open heads: they’re craving answers

• 27:48 – Open root centres and countdown timers: the pressure that makes you buy

• 29:13 – Urgency without timers: the cost of staying the same

• 32:26 – Bro marketers vs. love bombers: two sides of misaligned selling

• 35:00 – Calling out patterns, beliefs, and immaturities

• 39:00 – The 26 gate, Neptune, and calling out charlatans

• 41:00 – Pride, humility, and being willing to be wrong to be happy

• 46:25 – Why everyone is fascinating when you look at their design

“People don’t know how to conversate because they don’t understand the persuasion levers... It’s not always about you. Your authority is out there, but it’s about knowing your audience on a deeper level. People’s desires are their openness.”
— Tanya Marie

EBONIE: What does being ‘full of yourself’ mean to you? What are you FULL of?

TANYA MARIE: Full of power, full of making choices that serve you first and not others, full of joy, fully rested, fully turned on about life and what you do

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you’ve made for yourself in your adult life?

TANYA MARIE: Embodying my Manifestor regardless of the generator society and giving no fucks about it even if I’m a black sheep

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

TANYA MARIE: Source, the universe, God

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In this episode Tanya Marie went through some of my persuasion levers, and gave ‘homework’ to do… make sure you are subscribed to get notified when I share what I made using what she told me and document my process.

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Actually refer back to it and really be mindful that everything is electric right now, ripe for radical change.

It’s not about doing anything yet, except receiving the signal.

Listen

Listen some more.

You may need to get real quiet in order to hear through the static.

It’s not the words that matter so much as the frequency and the message beyond the obvious. It might be coded, just for you. It’s not a trick, it’s a message just for you

Uranus stations direct for the final time in our lifetime

Hopefully since May 2018 you've re-evaluated your relationship with security, and your relationship with your body, and your money and come to understand that all that glitters is not gold, but that the real value lies in something deeper than the surface and material gain.

If not, now is the time to do that.

Use the next 6 months to focus on becoming more self aware of your values and how your priorities are shifting

(I highly recommend The Value Filter)

In July, Uranus moves to Gemini (for 7 years)

And collectively we'll get to shake up our thinking, daily life, & communication.

In preparation, focus on collecting community that supports your mental health and resources you

Feb 6 Mercury enters Pisces

The ice in your imagination begins to melt, and the mind softens.

Logic gives way to intuition, be sure you are listening - pay attention to the symbolism, and what your emotions are whispering quietly under the noise.

Feb 10 Venus enters Pisces

The dreamy romantic in you becomes even more unconditionally compassionate - notice where this supports you and where it costs you too much.

Feb 13 Saturn enters Aries:

This is big. Saturn joins Neptune in Aries. So now we have even more Aries energy in our societal and generational sphere.

Saturn: Planet of time, structure, integrity, authority, mastery, pressure, limits, responsibility, maturity.

Aries: Wants to innovate, individuate. Has a lot of energy, but needs to know where to focus it.

Not so much stamina.

Responsibility moves into identity, courage, and self-leadership. This begins a new era of being self led - accountability around action, direction, and self-trust.

Feb 17 Chinese New Year (fire, horse)

New Moon Eclipse in Aquarius:

Our first Eclipse in Aquarius. A shutdown of the system leads to a reset - one encoded with collaboration.

A powerful reset is required around our collective future vision, community, systems, and belonging.

Outdated ways are closing so that a new way of participating in the reformation of society that can emerge

Feb 19 Sun enters Pisces:

Turn your energy inward and find equanimity and rest.

Remember that liberation, abundance, and true freedom is sourced inside of you (not from external things, situations, or people

Feb 20 Saturn conjunct Neptune in Aries:

Dream meets discipline. Faith meets responsibility. This is where ideals are tested and only what's real can move forward.

Redefine your reality, and your self concept. You are not who you say you are, but what you embody!

Feb 26 Mercury Retrograde in Pisces:

A chance to review and reflect on what the divine is asking of you next. Who are you brave enough to become.

Use this time to re-vise, re-flect and revisit what you think you want for yourself and your local and greater community.

Check in, am I overextending, am I playing small? Let the insecurities be revealed so you can work with them.

February invites you to grow up spiritually lead yourself honestly. choose what its time to put down. and what you re wiling to carry forward.

This month sets the tone for what is coming.

Be 'brutally' honest with yourself.

You'll thank me later.

If you want to align with your design and honour your soul contract...

If you give a shit, but have no fucks left to give and want to have an impact on our collective culture, without over giving - l have three offers to help you with that, they make up The True Self Trifecta:

1. The Value Filter

2. Kismetflix

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In this episode, I sit down with Hope Pedraza; functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner and energetics guide… for a raw conversation about the disconnection so many high-achieving women feel from their own bodies.

We explore how conservative upbringings, medical gaslighting, and the relentless pursuit of control can dim our inner spark, and what it actually takes to reignite it.

Hope shares parts of her own journey from disordered eating and divorce to discovering her voice, her power, and her purpose at the intersection of science and spirituality.

In this episode we explore:

• The connection between body disconnection and collective numbness/apathy

• Why “following the rules” doesn’t actually create safety

• How divorce became the catalyst for Hope’s spiritual awakening

• The difference between power over and power to

• What it means to have a reflector mind and an unconscious body in Human Design

• Why your throat chakra and self-expression are directly linked to inflammation

• The Phoenix energy we’re all being called into as we approach 2027

• How to rebuild trust with a body you’ve ignored for years

This conversation is for you if:

• You’ve spent years controlling, criticising, or disconnecting from your body

• You’ve experienced medical gaslighting and lost trust in yourself as a result

• You know there’s a spark inside you that’s been dimmed and you’re ready to reclaim it

• You’re curious about combining functional health with energetics and Human Design

• You grew up being the “good girl” and are now finding your voice

• You want to understand the difference between ownership and control

• You’re ready to stop waiting until you “figure your body out” to start living

Meet Hope Pedraza:

Hope Pedraza is a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, Human Design Guide, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and host of the Hopeful and Wholesome podcast. She helps high-performing, spiritually curious women optimize their energy, rebalance their nervous system, and reconnect with their body’s wisdom so they can scale their business and life without burnout. Her signature method blends functional labs, Human Design embodiment, and subconscious reprogramming to create sustainable radiance from the inside out.

Connect with Hope:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehopepedraza

Website: https://www.hopefulandwholesome.com

Podcast: https://www.hopefulandwholesome.com/podcasts

Substack:

Timestamps:

• 2:37 – Ebonie shares her experience with disordered eating and body control

• 3:52 – Did you ever have the spark, or was it always dimmed?

• 4:18 – Medical gaslighting and women losing trust in their bodies

• 7:00 – Hope’s journey: gut issues, perfectionism, and the catalyst of divorce

• 10:30 – Becoming your own authority vs. outsourcing your power

• 13:00 – The Reflector mind and feeling like “why is everyone else ahead of me?”

• 17:30 – Designing your business and life around your Human Design environment

• 19:30 – The 2027 shift and empowering the next generation

• 21:45 – Collective apathy, numbness, and disconnection from self

• 24:00 – Hope’s incarnation cross: abundance, intimacy, and pure power (Gates 55, 59, 34, 20)

• 26:50 – Expression, the throat, and inflammation in the body

• 27:22 – Growing up in conservative religion and finding your voice

• 29:22 – The volcano metaphor and feeling safe to use your voice

• 32:05 – Ownership vs. control and taking responsibility

• 35:10 – The Phoenix rising: letting what needs to burn, burn

• 37:31 – Hope’s advice

Ebonie and Hope’s Charts for reference:

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EBONIE: What does being ‘full of yourself’ mean to you? What are you FULL of?

HOPE: Being full of myself means bringing every piece of me into this life and letting every single piece of me be present in every single moment without shame, guilt or judgement. Being full of myself means being me unapologetically, showing up unapologetically, and living my true authenticity out loud. I am full of love, light, the desire to serve, sacred rage for the injustices in this world, and the passion to do something about it.

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you’ve made for yourself in your adult life?

HOPE: Breaking down the walls that kept me confined to playing the “good girl” narrative and living out other people’s expectations and rules. This was a journey through divorce, finding myself, discovering how to love myself, a deep dive into my human design, and my own spiritual awakening and deconstruction of the strict religions rules I had grown up with.

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

HOPE: Spirit.

Reflections:

How did this episode land for you?

What questions do you have?

When was the last time your body told you something and you actually listened?

What happened?

What's one thing your body has been asking for that you keep putting off?

Share in the comments or subscriber chat and let's hold each other accountable.

This marks a shift from surrender to action, from passive dreaming to bold initiation. Where our collective dreams have been focused on imagining ‘New Earth’ for the last 14 years, now is the time to DO THE THINGS.

Neptune in Aries marks a period of transforming collective ideals moving away from passive contemplation toward action and self leadership.

In 2026, Neptune moves through Human Design Gates 25 and 17 asking us to focus on far-sightedness and acceptance.

On a global level, Neptune in Aries is likely to ignite huge social and political movements, driven by collective dreams for a better future, inspiring both revolutionary change and the challenge of distinguishing true progress from illusion, passion, identity, and self-discovery.

Now is the time to double down on self leadership and inner mastery, and to understand the assignment (your soul contract)

How will this impact you?

Read by riding sign, but check your sun too

It If you want deeper support - and are ready to embody the essence of aries bold action, comment BOLD and I’ll send you more info on possible personalised next steps

Stay wild, stay true, be more you!

Ebonie

Let me know in the comments how this landed for you x

In this enriching conversation, Ebonie sits down with Rachel Star, cosmic business coach and creator of Cosmic Queen, to explore why creativity is becoming the new currency as we enter a pivotal shift in human consciousness.

From the significance of Pluto moving into Gate 41 for the first time in 248 years to the power of knowing your cosmic blueprint, this episode is a masterclass in understanding who you are so you can finally become who you're meant to be.

In this episode we explore:

• Why “just be yourself” is unhelpful advice; and what actually works

• The 248-year Pluto cycle and what Gate 41 (the “Future Fueler”) means for 2026

• How your Rising Sign reveals what you truly need to feel fulfilled

• The Gene Keys activation sequence and why your “Earth” holds the key to your growth

• Why homogenization is dying and individuality is the path forward

• Lilith in Sagittarius: What wild, truth-seeking feminine energy means for the year ahead

• The difference between nostalgia and genuine progress

This conversation is for you if:

• You’ve achieved success but still feel unfulfilled or like something’s missing

• You’re curious about human design, astrology, or Gene Keys but don’t know where to start

• You feel called to take a leap but don’t know who you really are yet

• You’re tired of one-size-fits-all advice and ready to honor your unique design

• You sense big shifts happening in the world and want to understand how to navigate them

• You’re ready to stop dimming your light and start cultivating your creative genius

Meet Rachel Star

After a successful but unfulfilling career in tech, Rachel set off to uncover what makes people successful & satisfied. She discovered the systems of Astrology & Human Design, studied & applied them for years and exchanged her 9-5 for the entrepreneur’s adventure.

Now she shares insight from the cosmic cutting edge. Rachel’s work is for ambitious people ready to use their unique genius to create wealth, positive impact & personal fulfilment.

She helps entrepreneurs with personal branding, business and leadership..with being who they were born to be, as they reach for the stars.

Connect with Rachel:

Website: www.cosmicqueenhq.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cosmicqueenhq/

Substack:

Timestamps:

0:00 Welcome to Becoming Full of Yourself
02:40 The 2/5 & 5/2 harmonic profiles explained
04:30 How embodying your design magnetises your people
07:45 Pluto in Gate 41 and the 248-year collective cycle
09:10 The Aquarian paradox: community vs individuality
10:55 Where has creativity gone? Cultural homogenisation
12:00 Creativity as the new currency
15:15 “Stay wild, stay true, be more you” origin story
17:50 Finding yourself when you don’t know who you are
25:25 The Gene Keys activation sequence and four anchors
26:00 Why your Earth holds the nutrients for growth
28:00 Breakthroughs, Phoenix moments, and rebirth
33:20 Why AI can’t replace human connection and energy
35:35 What Rachel is excited about for 2026
43:35 Lilith in Sagittarius: wild feminine truth
46:57 Closing reflections and sign-off

EBONIE: What does being ‘full of yourself’ mean to you? What are you FULL of?

RACHEL: I’m Full of ambition for what I know I’m capable of and full of love for myself, my quirks and my big heart that I’m willing to put out there while I go for it

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you’ve made for yourself in your adult life?

RACHEL: Deciding to become a single parent. And deciding to leave the corporate world to build my own legacy .

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

RACHEL: love and ideas 😉

Let us know in the comments or chat:

• Do you know your Rising Sign? Drop it in the comments - we’d love to know what drives your sense of fulfilment!

• For the human design folks: What’s your profile? Have you found your “harmonic” people yet?

• Where in your life have you been homogenising to fit in instead of honouring your individuality?

• Ebonie said creativity is the new currency - what’s one creative risk you’ve been afraid to take?

• Ebonie’s mantra is “Stay wild, stay true, be more you.” What would YOUR personal mantra be?

• If 2026 is the year to take the leap, what’s the ONE leap you know you need to make?

• What’s one thing from the past you’d love to bring back - without the baggage that came with it?

In this solo episode, Ebonie dives deep into Gate 60 (Acceptance & Limitation), her conscious Earth placement and the final gate before Human Design New Year. As someone who’s been living this energy intensely for the past five years during its Pluto transit, she shares raw, personal insights about what it really means to mutate through pressure, create magic from nothing, and surrender to the wisdom of constraint.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

✨ Why creativity thrives inside limitation (and how to use structure as fuel, not restriction)
⏰ The power of patience and what it means to truly accept where you are
🐇 How to pull rabbits out of hats when life gives you “nothing” to work with
🔮 What happens when Pluto spends 5 years transforming your evolution point
🌱 The difference between surrender and resignation—and why one creates magic
💎 How pressure creates diamonds (and what’s mutating in YOU right now)

This episode is for you if:

• You’re feeling stuck or limited and need a new perspective

• You’re a creative who struggles with “too many options”

• You’re navigating a challenging period and need to find the gift in it

• You have Gate 60 in your chart (or want to work with this energy while the sun transits it)

• You’re ready to stop fighting your constraints and start creating with them

Key timestamps:

• 5:44 - Pluto’s 5-year transit through Gate 60 & what it taught about pressure

• 6:46 - Feeling the shift when Pluto moved into Gate 41 in December 2025

• 7:35 - What Gate 60 means: mutation through limitation, pressure, and waiting

• 9:12 - Noticing what happens when things aren’t moving

• 12:13 - How you can work with Gate 60 energy (whether you have it or not)

• 19:24 - The astrology & Gene Keys of Gate 60: shadow, gift, and siddhi

• 20:42 - Gate 60 in action: pressure to transcend limitation (I call it them ‘stop’ codons, I meant ‘start’)

• 22:57 - Light & shadow expressions of Gate 60

• 24:24 - Raising the frequency: discovering your creative containers

• 25:41 - Programming partners: Gate 56 & Gate 3 (the channel of mutation)

Resources mentioned:

• Ebonie’s Gate 60 card from her Kismet Codes deck

• The Value Filter

• Embody Your Design, Kismetflix,

• Free Charts + Reading Reports

Ready to work with Ebonie?

• Free Fundamentals Reports: Human Design, Astrology, Gene Keys basics

• Attributes Reports (£44): Deep dive into your unique design

Start here: www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart

Connect with Ebonie:
Website: www.ebonieallard.com

Substack:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eboniealchemy

Next week: A special guest joins to talk about Gate 41 and jumping timelines as we enter Human Design New Year on January 21st!

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  📍 I would love to hear in the comments or subscriber chat about your experience of Gate 60.

How do you relate to this?

Do you have it?

Does anybody else in your world have it?

How has this helped you see it differently?

How did you experience Pluto being in Gate 60, and did you notice the shift as it moved into Gate 41?

In this raw and resonant conversation, I sit down with my friend Dory Walker, a human alchemist with 30 years of experience in yoga, shamanic practices, and multidimensional healing. We dive deep into what it really means to become “full of yourself” not as vanity, but as a radical act of evolutionary healing.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why the “gaze” that fell upon us in adolescence made us perform instead of simply being
• How to teach the next generation to stay full of themselves (without the wounds we carried)
• The difference between self-concept and signature frequency—and why one matters more
• Why being told you’re “intimidating” or “too much” is actually confirmation you’re on the right path
• How to take ownership of everything in your field (even when it’s uncomfortable)
• The art of holding your own gaze without apology
• Why depth, not vanity, is the true measure of fullness

This conversation is for you if:

• You’ve ever been told to “tone it down” or that you’re “too intense”

• You’re tired of performing a smaller version of yourself

• You want to understand how to help young people stay connected to their wholeness

• You’re ready to stop avoiding the void and start owning your full range

GUEST BIO:
Dory has been spiritual teacher for over 25 years. An alchemist of energetics and the human mind. She is a teacher, coach, mentor and mother. Leading trainings and retreats internationally, a nomad a heart she lives between India and Europe with her partner and 2 daughters.

CONNECT WITH DORY:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdorywalker
Website: https://www.dorywalker.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamdorywalker

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Introduction & Welcome
00:35 - Meet Dory Walker: Human Alchemist
04:20 - When the Gaze Fell: Navigating Adolescence
08:20 - Empowerment & Reclamation
13:20 - Growing Up Different in the 80s
16:40 - The Paradigm Shift Happening Now
20:00 - Teaching Self-Awareness to Our Kids
25:00 - Personal Responsibility as Alchemy
30:00 - Reclaiming Your Vastness
35:00 - Identity vs. Signature Frequency
38:20 - Final Wisdom & Where to Find Dory

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Watching back to edit this episode I was struck by the intersection between personal responsibility and collective worthiness. We are on a threshold; one that could be devastating or remarkable. I love how this episode feels like a soul song of hope and meaning, an invitation to us all to shift to fullness as a radical act of magic and mastery!

EBONIE: What does being full of yourself mean to you?

DORY: It means living unmasked from any survival strategies and in that way embodying freedom. being full of yourself to be being empty of past impressions, programs that have an individual looping in survival mechanisms. I am full of presence. I am full of space to listen to listen to life

EBONIE: What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you've made for yourself in your adult life?

DORY: It really is a deepening on a journey i have been on for the whole of my adult life. A commitment to truth a commitment o self unquiet to knowing thyself so I guess the commitment to he fascination to the cosmic order and the human condition.

EBONIE: Complete this sentence: “At my essence I am full of .....”

DORY: love

Did you watch the movie Clerks?

Did you resonate with what we were sharing?

What did you get from this conversation?

This is a conversation that inspires hope, excitement even, in what might otherwise feel like a scary or fearful time to be alive. This is a perspective altering episode, subtle but profound, like all personal alchemy - I hope that you enjoy it.

BIG love,

stay wild, stay true, be more you!

Ebonie

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:
• Human Design & Gene Keys
• Shamanic Red Path practices
• Sweat lodge ceremonies

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Until next time: be bold, be brave, be full of yourself. 🔥